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| Robin Rocky Mountain Stroke Survivor |
My perfect day: Having slept in as late as I wanted, I woke up in my beautiful and peaceful bedroom to the feel of a light breeze coming through the open window. I close the window and curtain before the heat of the day and pad into the kitchen where my husband has breakfast waiting for me. Everyone smiles at me and I at them as I walk into the room. The kids are already diapered/pottied and dressed for the day. They are each settled into an age appropriate, interesting, and educational activity. My husband is wiping down the completely clear table after their breakfast (did I mention they were already fed too?) and as soon as I finish my breakfast, my dish is whisked into the dishwasher in order to not dirty the freshly scrubbed sink. Supper is already in the crock pot and my husband announces that he has a picnic lunch already packed so the kids and I can go on a little jaunt while he finishes up a project in the back yard. I put on the clothes that were laid out for me and away we go. When we get home an hour or so later, my husband has gotten an amazing amount of work done around the house and yard; he takes over the kids while I take a 2-3 hour nap. I wake up refreshed. We spend a little time together as a family before supper and everyone stows themselves neatly in bed nice and early.
My real day: Our daughter, age 1, has a fever and wakes me up with her piteous cries at 4am. I kick my husband until he wakes up enough to understand that I need him to fetch the infant ibuprofen from the bathroom. By the time he comes back, I’ve fallen asleep in an uncomfortable position holding my daughter. As soon as he wakes me up and hands me the syringe of medicine, he’s konked out (in an uncomfortable position). I dose the baby and spend the rest of the night in that weird sort-of sleep that only parents of sick kids and political prisoners understand…you’re exhausted so you fall asleep instantly but the instant you fall asleep, you are awoken by kicks and screams.


































