Kate Allatt A Rocky Stroke Recovery |
Who’d have thought it?
4 years ago – coma, life support, then Trachi, PEG, catheter with the real prospect of life in a nursing home and crucially away from my kids?
The separation anxiety from them and the realisation of perhaps being parted indefinitely from our kids then aged 6, 9 & 10 was completely UNBEARABLE and left me with a longing, few have EVER understood.
That was quite possibly, and hopefully will always be, my worst ever Mothers Day, in ICU back in 2010.
Make no mistake about it.
- Forget the obsessive running.
- Forget the importance of social media in my own recovery.
- Forget about my passionate need to provide ‘no promises, just possibilities’ for others now, who suffer like I did.
My basic MOTHERS NEED to be back with MY KIDS, after WEEKS & MONTHS of separation, ACTUALLY SAVED MY LIFE IN HOSPITAL & drove my relentless spirit and self belief.
Fact!!
However, fast forward my amazing last 4 years!
We have all bounced back and seem to be finally thriving in every way.
I’ve learnt:
- Our kids are more resilient than you think.
- I have accepted and cope better with all my own emotional baggage, as do they.
- There have been huge family tantrums and tiaras, all round. Then combine that with adolescent hormones!!! EXPLOSIVE!
- There have been MASSIVE ups & GIGANTIC downs, but we have a bond, which is totally unbreakable, close and solid. My mothers love is truly unconditional.
THANK YOU INDIA, HARVEY & WOODY for giving me the fire in my belly! :-) :-) :-)
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